Community is Everything

The Fit

The Fit
between us.

if you are not loved for who you truly are,
you are not truly loved.

Our Community Dating Profile

when you have nothing to lose, and everything to gain, be radically honest.

When we date, when we apply for jobs, when we perhaps advertise a job, we all get stuck in the same basic trap: Ideal Self.

It is not that us, or anyone else is walking around deliberately lying or pretending to be someone we are not, but we do try and put our best foot forward, and there is always a honeymoon period, where we live up to that better version of ourselves we want to be. Invariably however, opportunity and adversity come along and test the depth of our commitment to that version of ourself, and our ability to embody that, in discomfort and frustration.

Secondly, we learned very quickly when we were trying to find that special someone, it pays to be really self-informed and as forthcoming 

 

 

The Job Description

when you have nothing to lose, and everything to gain, be radically honest.

A bit about Us

 

 

OUR DREAMS AND GOALS

 

RELIGION & SPIRITUALITY

 

POLITICAL LEANING

CIGARETTES, ALCOHOL & DRUGS

We are completely open to the responsible use of entheogenics, cannabis etc. for ceremony, psychedelic assisted self-repair etc. but are WHOLLY AGAINST addictive substances like cigarettes (or any tobacco products for that matter), cocaine (and derivatives), heroine and derivatives, methamphetamines (and derivatives).  We cannot name them all, but if you’re ashamed of the use, it’s out. Alcohol is on the fence – if there is discernement and moderation, its okay, if its a volume and excess issue, its out.

 

IDEAS ON RELATIONSHIPS, SEXUALITY & GENDER

 

PARENTING

when you have nothing to lose, and everything to gain, be radically honest.