The Fit
between us.
if you are not loved for who you truly are,
you are not truly loved.
Our Community Dating Profile
when you have nothing to lose, and everything to gain, be radically honest.
When we date, when we apply for jobs, when we perhaps advertise a job, we all get stuck in the same basic trap: Ideal Self.
It is not that us, or anyone else is walking around deliberately lying or pretending to be someone we are not, but we do try and put our best foot forward, and there is always a honeymoon period, where we live up to that better version of ourselves we want to be. Invariably however, opportunity and adversity come along and test the depth of our commitment to that version of ourself, and our ability to embody that, in discomfort and frustration.
Secondly, we learned very quickly when we were trying to find that special someone, it pays to be really self-informed and as forthcoming
The Job Description
when you have nothing to lose, and everything to gain, be radically honest.
A bit about Us
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OUR DREAMS AND GOALS
RELIGION & SPIRITUALITY
POLITICAL LEANING
CIGARETTES, ALCOHOL & DRUGS
We are completely open to the responsible use of entheogenics, cannabis etc. for ceremony, psychedelic assisted self-repair etc. but are WHOLLY AGAINST addictive substances like cigarettes (or any tobacco products for that matter), cocaine (and derivatives), heroine and derivatives, methamphetamines (and derivatives). We cannot name them all, but if you’re ashamed of the use, it’s out. Alcohol is on the fence – if there is discernement and moderation, its okay, if its a volume and excess issue, its out.
IDEAS ON RELATIONSHIPS, SEXUALITY & GENDER
PARENTING
when you have nothing to lose, and everything to gain, be radically honest.